We are surrounded by death. This isn’t an observation on the state of the COVID pandemic — although with 970,000 deaths and counting, it could be. Rather, it’s an observation on life. We are born, we grow, we die. No one can avoid this cycle and yet, we so rarely talk about that last part. Michael Hebb, a former restaurateur and architect, has spent recent decades trying to get us to confront mortality — pointing out the immediate obvious benefits to our mental, physical, and spiritual health in doing so. His advice: Start the discussion today. Do it casually, over dinner. Bring the kids into the talk. And watch your worries and fears lighten.

BIG IDEAS

Let’s Talk About Death — At the Dinner Table

Michael Hebb, founder of Death Over Dinner, talks about preparing our kids — and ourselves — to deal with mortality.

TIPS AND TRICKS

How to Talk to Kids About Death

- Remove Your Emotion: Approaching death as a pragmatic thing that happens can actually be helpful when talking to kids.
- Use Clear and Honest Language: This is not time to employ a well-crafted metaphor. Just
- Don’t Volunteer Details: It’s also not a time to bring to them examples. You don’t lead with the sex talk about how mom and dad do it and you shouldn’t lead the death talk with how death impacted you.
- Direct Their Thoughts to Memories: Memories are more tangible and real than an afterlife for kids — and an important place to start thinking about death.

Read more about how to talk to kids about death in an honest and uplifting way.

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TIPS AND TRICKS

3 Ways to Self Promote
1. Find Your Focus: You might have a bunch of skills, but if you throw them all out there you just sound like a braggart. Promote what makes you a standout.
2. Don’t Clog Everyone’s Feed: Be methodical, not manic. Be consistent, not constant.
3. Carry a Thick Skin: When you put yourself out there, the haters will swarm. Ignore them and recognize the silent majority is your intended audience.

Read more advice on how to self promote — without being obnoxious.

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SEX

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