TIPS AND TRICKS

Don’t Fight About the Kids in Front of the Kids
Listen, we know it’s nearly impossible to shelve arguments until a kid is asleep or out of the room. Even if you do, there will probably be stares, whispers, cocked eyebrows, and all sorts of silent warfare that breaks out. That’s natural. There are also times when it’s helpful for kids to see their parents argue about certain topics, as this helps them to understand that conflict is a necessary part of life. But, when it comes to specifically arguing about issues directly or indirectly about the kids, parents need to avoid that at all costs. Arguing in front of a child can be incredibly damaging to their psyche, as it creates a sense of instability and insecurity. This can manifest as guilt and a feeling of responsibility, leading to lifelong feelings of inadequacy.
 
Here are a few more things to remember about fighting in front of the kids.