Mess-ups. Mistakes. Blunders. Whiffs. Screw-ups. Failures. We all experience them in various forms. The big. The small. The duh why did I do that? Deep down we know that learning from our failures is fundamental to success — it’s how we become better partners, better parents, better bosses, better people. But learning from big failure also means sitting uncomfortably with our mistakes to better understand what happened. That’s never easy, because facing failure requires us to confront things that can feel demeaning, embarrassing, and shameful. That’s why it’s vital to reframe failure — and, as one writer suggests, find low-stakes hobbies where messing up doesn’t matter.
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