There are a million ways for any one conversation to go off the rails. But every single one of them has something in common: The tone. If you stop thinking about what you say and focus on the way you say it, chances are you’ll have fewer arguments or misunderstandings. Furthermore, paying attention to your tone will help you uncover how you really feel. Because if you’re in a fury, yelling across the house, “I’m only yelling because I love you!” — trust us when we say that no one in the fight really believes this.
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