Chances are, you know what you and your partner need to work on. That’s good. But it’s easy to get so bogged down in the whole being-better-than-yesterday thing that you lose sight of — or don’t take the time to appreciate — the areas where you succeed. It’s a natural impulse (we humans are, after all, wired to focus more on the negative) but one to actively fight. Because in focusing on what works we’re able to live in the moment and enjoy the small victories. That’s important.
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