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The idea of having a specific set of family rules sounds like tyranny, which is the last thing parents want for their kids. But when done right, house rules for kids provide needed structure and predictability. The family members understand the existence and purpose of the rule. Routine is preserved. The kids feel safer, and everyone’s stress — particularly yours — goes down. Now, there’s a big difference between any rule and the right rule.


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9 Family Rules Parents Should Enforce at Home

 

Suggested by therapists and meant for both you and your kids, these rules yield positive results and create a stronger family dynamic.

 
 
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TIPS AND TRICKS


Tell Your Kids “I Hear You” More Often
 
Sometimes the reason kids act out or have tantrums is because they feel it’s the only way to be heard. The simple answer is for parents to tell them they are heard before it gets to point of being a serious behavioral issue.
 
But the phrase must go beyond a curt “I hear you.” It’s best used when paired with a recognition of their emotions: “I hear you’re sad because you don’t want to go to bed.” “I hear you’re frustrated because you want to watch another show.”
 
This is another way to help a kid understand empathy while feeling like their point has been received. Why get loud and crazy if they’ve already got their message across?

Here are seven more words and phrases parents should always say to their children.


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   HEALTH AND SCIENCE   
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9 Myths About the COVID Vaccine, Debunked


Parents just want what’s best for their kids. Some think holding off on the vaccine is what’s best – but it’s not, and here’s why.

 
 
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Ghostbusters: Afterlife is good!

 
 
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