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Maybe you’re talking with your spouse. Or friend. Or brother. Or colleague. Whoever it is, you know that no matter how carefully you say something, the words won’t get through. They’re just so damn defensive. It can be extremely frustrating to have a conversation with someone who constantly gets defensive, which makes you more likely to get into the interaction hot...and which makes matters worse. But there are ways to sidestep someone’s personal fortifications.  


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The Secret to Talking to Someone Who Always Gets Defensive


It can be an extremely frustrating experience. But there are ways to sidestep someone's personal fortifications.

 
 
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Marriage is fundamentally about connection. Defensiveness is one of the worst things that can interfere with having a healthy connection.
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 — Anthony Chambers, Ph.D., Director of the Center for Applied Psychological and Family Studies at Northwestern University, on the danger of being defensive.

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This 20-Minute Workout Is a Nonstop Sweat Fest


How do you find fitness in 20 minutes? By going hard for every second of it.

 
 
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3 Core Exercises to Do More Often

1. Flutter Kick. Lie on your back, legs extended, heels about 6 inches off the ground. Place your hands by your sides or under the small of your back for support. Begin to scissor your legs up and down, as if you are doing the backstroke in the pool. Flutter kick for 20 seconds, rest 10, then do 20 seconds more.

2. Leg Drop. Lie on your back on the floor, legs straight up in the air, feet together. Place your hands by your sides or under the small of your back for support. Without bending your knees, lower your legs to just above the floor, then raise them back to their vertical position. Do 10 reps, rest 10 seconds, then do another 10 reps.

3. Russian Twist. Start in a seated position. Lean back so your torso is at a 45-degree angle with the floor, keeping your feet grounded with your legs bent at the knees. Bring your palms together in front of your chest. Rotate your body all the way to the left, then back through the center and to the right. Repeat. Perform 30 on each side.

 

Looking to change up your core workout? Check out these 27 essential core workouts.

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The Very Best New Toys of 2021

We looked at, played with, and discussed this year's new toys — and saved the best for you.

 
 
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