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When someone we love is hurting, it’s only natural for us to want to comfort them. But it’s so easy to screw this up because our natural inclination is problem solve. Then there’s also the fact that you can’t push someone to talk about feelings, especially when pain is involved. The thing to remember is that each person’s needs are unique and can change by the hour, but providing comfort should result in a lightening, mostly in isolation, because pain can disconnect people from themselves, their surroundings, and others. We spoke to a variety of experts about how to provide comfort the right way and distilled their advice down into five steps. The next time you need to console, keep it in mind. |
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