As Yoda once muttered: "Do or do not, there is no try." We normally agree with the little guy, who, let's be honest, sounds like he's always got a bad case of indigestion (maybe all that rootleaf stew?) But if you want to be a better husband, the first step to try to be a better husband. Marriages thrive when both partners play active roles in the relationship, paying mind to everything from the daily maintenance of the marriage to personal care in hopes of understanding yourself better for the other. The simple act of trying to be better leads to, well, being better. Here are some places to start.