What really helps keep them safe is knowing they can come to you – their parent. If they think you’ll just freak out or take everything away, they’re less likely to tell you when something’s wrong.
So learn the apps together. Talk about warning signs of something being sketchy. Set limits on things like screen time or who they talk to. In short: Build their skills. Having open conversations about technology and the thoughts, relationships, and habits surrounding it will help kids use it with confidence, awareness, and good judgment.