When Tamara Frankfort Odinec and her husband decided to get divorced, the pair fretted about how to tell their kids. Now, years later, Tamara asked her kids what they wish she and her ex had done differently when they told them the news. The result is this interesting and thoughtful piece about regrets and what she wants others to know if they’re going through something similar.

I was talking with my coworker, Katie McPherson, the other day about self-tanning and how I always seem to leave streaks everywhere, and she boldly stated that she self-tanned herself for her wedding – and started planning how to do it nearly a year in advance. Suffice it to say, I trust what she has to say about self-tanning, and you should, too, which is why she wrote this very thorough piece all about it. You’re welcome.