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This week we are delighted to highlight a wonderful friend and powerful force for positivity and hope – Ben Doskocil.
In particular, we’d like to thank Ben, one of our Sunshine colleagues, for sharing these wonderful thoughts on the transformative power of hope and the inspiration from his mentor – Dr. Norman Vincent Peale.
From Ben: As Dr. Peale writes: ‘A wise doctor once told his family that “all things are possible for those who truly believe.” So many of humankind’s greatest accomplishments in science, business, battle, sporting events and healthcare had a humble beginning as a tiny mustard seed of hope in the heart and mind of a person with unwavering perseverance. And these titans among humankind proved that what many saw as entirely impossible, could in fact be authentically accomplished! Keeping hope not just alive, but healthy and abundant, is critical to maximizing our full potential and finding prosperity and real happiness in our lives.
As Ben then goes on to say, “Hope” can be defined as an optimistic state of mind that expects positive things to happen in the future. Driving up Interstate 93 from Boston to New Hampshire this evening, I sat in my fair share of commuter traffic on the Zakim Bridge and then again at the Interstate 95 split. I was in a hurry to assist my wife with the bedtime routine for our children, and out of frustration I began to run less than pious phrases through my mind about my fellow four-wheeled opponents as we all jockeyed for position in the race back home. Luckily, during my angry quest for victory, I was reminded of an amazing life tip from the famous Dr. Norman Vincent Peale. In his bestselling book The Power of Positive Thinking, Dr. Peale challenges his readers to speak positively on everything that happens during a full 24-hour day. And so, in that moment of unease, I decided to set out to accomplish my mentor’s worthy demand.
I disengaged from the amazing race and instead began to run positive affirmations about my fellow countrymen as we embarked together on our journey home back to “live free or die” land. I began to notice the different types of cars, trucks, and jeeps on the road. I soon also noticed the beautiful colors and detailing of some of the vehicles and was warmed by the many bumper stickers on cars that saluted their children’s accomplishments. Not long after this, I began to truly appreciate and run positive thoughts through my mind about the beautiful tall pine trees and the thick strong maple leaves on the branches that glistened in the setting sun. As I passed the border into the Granite State, I thought of the many parents who, like I had earlier that morning, rose early and worked diligently throughout the day to support their children’s dreams. Even more positive thoughts began flooding my mind about the sacrifices of our men and women in the armed services, our police, firefighters, and EMTs. By the time I returned home, my heart was full of hope and gratitude as I rushed inside to hold my daughters in warm hugs and to specifically tell them how lucky I am to be their dad.
It is absolutely amazing to witness and experience the significant and almost magical changes that living with perpetual hope can bring. Sure, we will all backslide into a ball of nerves and maybe even a touch of anger at times when life throws its worst at us, but as my friend Norman challenged me and others in his book, I challenge you to speak positively on everything for 24 hours. Give it a shot! At first it may seem trite and a bit inauthentic, but if you grind out that full day of optimistic affirmations, hope will lead you to an amazing place.
We thank, Ben, for these inspiring thoughts – and urge you to give his 24 ‘challenge’ a try.
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