Here’s the thing: There isn’t consensus about the “right way” to assess sexual satisfaction. Experts have found shortcomings with most of the available surveys and other such measuring tools when used for large populations. The reason is simple, and probably quite obvious: It’s difficult to create any one set of questions or “signs” of a good sex life that will apply to everyone. However, there are ways to gauge your sexual satisfaction, questions to ask and answers to inspect. Such as, is there a balance? Is there comfort? Is there acceptance? These and other data points may not fully capture what satisfaction looks like for everyone, but they’ll help guide you toward the most fulfilling sex life possible. And who doesn’t want that? |