Advice
Tell The Truth In Therapy — And Expect It In Return
The clinical experience is redemptive because it is designed to address suffering insofar as the people who are engaged in the process are both telling each other the truth.
First of all, if you have some problems and you speak to me about them, you have admitted they exist. That is a pretty good start. Second, if you tell me about them, then we know what they are. If we know what they are, maybe we can start to lay out some solutions, and then you can act out the solutions and see if they work.
But if you do not admit the problems exist and you will not tell me what they are, and I am posturing and acting egotistically and taking the upper hand in all of our discussions, how the hell is that going to work? It might be comfortable from moment to moment while we stay encapsulated in our delusion, but it is not going to work. If you think it through, that seems pretty self-evident.
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